Ask Dvorahji: A new perspective on JUDGING others!

"The moment you place judgement on another person, you are revealing to yourself the part of you that you are in judgement of." ~ Amir Zoghi******

DVORAHJI: 

You know, we judge people all the time...and we think it's so horrible! Well, let me be the first to say: IT'S NATURAL...And it's not such a big deal. No matter how much you "don't" want to judge - you JUST DO - AND THEN you end up hating yourself & others for judging. It's so stupid really. LOVE IS YOUR NATURE and judging comes & goes (and let it be from your throat or brain and not from your heart!!!)

And if we wouldn't take it all so SERIOUSLY we wouldn't get so bent out of shape 

everytime we judge a 90 year old driving in front of us at 20mph in a 60 mph zone.

THIS POLITICALLY SPIRITUAL CORRECT NONSENSE GIVES ME HEARTBURN AND I THINK IT'S BECAUSE OF THE CHINESE FOOD I HAD FOR DINNER (OOPS! was I just judgemental? SH@@ - can't say anything nowadays: Especially in a non-judgemental spiritual community - where people judge each other ALL THE F-ING TIME about who's judgemental or not! 

Give yourself a break, and stop looking for reasons/quotes to JUDGE YOURSELF!

SPIRITUAL SEEKERS & devotees are always judging me! Do I really know WHO I AM?........Well let me help you along....I don't have a clue WHO I AM and if you think you know who you are - you are defnitely spiritually CRAZY!

Written about a week ago · Comment · 

Alisha Ingles, Anna Novikov, Tanbir Kabarwal and 2 others like this.

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@Vibha..of course the joke is, you're judging them for judging themselves and that makes them "not as spiritual/or non judgemental as they should be".....It's all just a joke! People judge ALL THE TIME, CONSTLANTLY. So I say...OK - so judge and then letl it go into the ether/space where it cam from and keep moving a long, singing a song. We get stuck at every ridiculous concept that moves through our mind.

So WHAT, you judged someone or thing? SO What someone else is judgemental? SO F-ing WHAT! Unless it's coming from their heart and they're really BOZO's & you need to correct them by calling them a Bozo -LET IT GO and don't bother to judge others for being judgemental.

June 23 at 10:04am ·  · 

Niru Rajagopal 

Every time there is a thought, it's a judgment one way or the other!!! ha ha!!! We're NATURALLY judgmental!! ;)

June 23 at 10:34am ·  ·  1 person ·  · Flag

Mara Birkmaier 

I think we had it right as children....it takes one to know one. HA! If you didnt have some aspect of that thing you are judging it wouldn't effect you.

June 23 at 4:45pm via Facebook Mobile ·  ·  · Flag

Giedre Skiedre 

was never too judgmental… born to be hippie and have so much love for everyone and everything the way they are…. But still sometimes something comes out like he/she shouldn’t or why he/she did like this or not like that. The funny thing is, it takes just few days or sometimes hours and I find myself in the same situation and doing or planning to take same action as the person I was judging :)

June 24 at 12:18am ·  ·  · Flag

Maureen Yeomans 

Thanks for this, I'm going to copy the Amir Zhogi quote. In 'Mind Clearing' the question is 'When did you do something similar?" and, after initial reluctance, there always was something similar.

June 24 at 12:42am ·  ·  · Flag