Ask Dvorahji: Why did you delete me? How loving can you be if you delete a friend?

Ask Dvorahji: Why did you delete me? How loving can you be if you delete a friend?

I honor your "path, I even honor your rhetoric but not on my page. What you call discussion, I call Bull####. There are so many voices out there, so many pages out there and so many words and so much confusion. That's why this page is called the "Final Guide for the Spiritually Challenged & Confused!" (from my perspective)

This page carries a particular interpretation, a particular vibration and a particular way of expressing this knowledge of "I Am THAT/LOVE IS MY NATURE" to others who hear it and find it in tune with their OWN life & understanding and begin to express their voice in their unique way.

This page is not for you to pontificate your point of view. That's what YOUR PAGE is for, and others will find you and gain what they need to from you.

So if my page is not your cup of tea, if all you want to do is Teach your particular brand of Spirituality, then do me and yourself a favor and DELETE ME & START YOUR OWN PAGE.

You mentioned how can I be so loving and delete a friend. Well, let me put it this way...LOVE IS MY NATURE, that doesn't mean that I invite everyone over for dinner. And it doesn't mean that I don't delete anyone. We're still friends, and if you want to privately contact me and have a conversation, great, But what good is it if you're really not interested in me or what I have to say and you are SET in your own understanding. Then what good am I to you? We are LOVE TO each other, and from my perspective, that's enough.

So Yes I LOVE YOU, but NO don't call me or post on my page. This ridiculous confusion between LOVE WHICH IS PERMANENT and love that is ever-changing drives people into confusion & misery. So let me dispel this thinking RIGHT NOW.

LOVE IS YOUR NATURE. Thinking, feeling, acting in a loving way is A HAPPENING!!! And some people according to their DNA, the stars or whatever, act more loving then others.

 Personally? I'm extremely loving and extremely impatient and it has nothing to do with my ENLIGHTEN/LOVING/PEACEFUL NATURE!!!! DO YOU GET IT? I'm willing to listen to LEGITIMATE SINCERE concerns and question for hours, but I'm NOT interested in being lectured to or questioned by someone who has all the answers.

P.S. Nisagaddatta (a very cool advaita sage) WAS LOVE, and he used to throw people out of his satsang all the time...I'm afraid I probably will too if you start talking what I deem as gibberish. TRUE SATSANG is not for Whimps! TRUE SATSANG is breaking bearers, getting people out of their compfort zone and lighting them on fire with relaxation, dissolving all their ideas & concepts! If you're up for the task, sit down and DISSAPPEAR....

BIG LOVE - little irritation, your Dvorahji...

Love you, but don't make me chop your head off! or maybe you SHOULD!!

Updated on Saturday · Comment · 

Laveena Rochvani, Anna Novikov, Liz Hunyadi and 2 otherslike this.

Ivette Laracuente

hahaha!!! True. Everyone finds the vibration to which they gravitate. Once the "learning" or vibration of that stage changes, you move on. And that is how we move in this everlasting flow of life. We live, we learn, we love, we realize, then in the middle of it all, all along, we ARE LOVE.

Yesterday at 9:34am · Delete

Nancey Gagos

You go girls! I'm with you!

Yesterday at 10:01am · Delete

Jeff Gregory

Thus, we love you b/c you are the SHUT UP Guru. :) Talking is easy.Listening - not so much.Yet, I have learned tons from you, and very little from my own yapping...

Yesterday at 10:05am · Delete

Ivette Laracuente

Hi Jeff- very little from your own yapping because you already know this. By reading or listening to others, all you do is remember your very essence. Isn't it wonderful when we see ourselves in others?

Yesterday at 10:37am · Delete

Dvorahji Dvorah Adler

Something hilarious just struck me! Bryon might say: "Hey Dvorah, where would you be without that thought?"--and I'd say: Hell, I'd be really Happy! - but then I'm REALLY HAPPY WITH ALL THOSE THOUGHTS!"

The trick is TO BE HAPPY, WITH OR WITHOUT thoughts, feeling etc. Why? Because they COME & THEN THEY GO...and actually, even the "evil or uncomfortable" ones are deliciously FUN and ENTERTAINING.

Let's say: "You've been waiting for your boyfriend to call & you're tremendously WANTING. Think about all that "longing to occupy your time" all that desire to occupy your time...I say it's just plain YUMMY! and then it goes, he calls or he doesn't and you've off to your next longing, thought, feeling, action.

Or let's say you're feeling lazy, unmotivated, a little depressed about "where your life is going". And there are all these thoughts of low self-worth, pity. SO WHAT!!!

There's something really yummy about crying & pitying yourself, and consoling yourself and calling all your friends and complaining about how life is miserable and yada yada yada. Alot of videos, a lot of wine or chocolate or whatever and alot of hoping and wishing things would be different, a lot of melancholy, reminiscing of what it was like...and SO WHAT?

SO WHERE WOULD YOU BE WITHOUT THOSE THOUGHTS? Well - I bet you'd still be miserable over other thoughts that continue to come & go continuously! Cause honestly, you're just hung up on thoughts PERIOD!

FROM MY PERSPECTIVE, your best bet, is to relax with ALL YOUR THOUGHTS and let them come & go in seconds, minutes, or hours, as they come, go recur just like your life. One minute you're sitting, next minute your eating, next minute you're in the bathroom, next minute you're at the computer, refrigerator, outside cleaning your porch.

You don't ask yourself: "Where would I be if I wasn't cleaning my porch, would you? NO, you clean it and move on to the next thing. LIFE IS MOVEMENT, THOUGHTS ARE ENERGY IN MOTION, THAT'S WHAT IT DOES. BLOW Like a breeze or the wind, moving along. Doesn't ask why, does it? NO, IT JUST MOVES ALONG and does it's thing.

NOW YOU MOVE ALONG AND DO YOUR THING! without all these ridiculous questions and rationalization of WHY, WHAT, WHERE WOULD I BE IFS?
OK! I Love you, your friend Dvorahji

btw - all you Byron fans out there, please don't start with the lectures, yes I love her, yes she's cool & yes, SHE'S DOING HER OWN THING.

Yesterday at 10:37am · Delete

Dvorahji Dvorah Adler

Thoughts have no hierarchy...One thought has the EXACT SAME VALUE AS ANOTHER...there aren't important thoughts "hooked into your cells or other nonsense" you may have heard. A thought is a thought is a thought. It may recur, but so what, if it didn't recur, a new one would take it's place!!!!!!

The thought, I want to go swimming, has the same value, as I want to be God, or I want to be Spiritual, or I want to kill somebody. A thought is a thought is a thought. and ALL THOUGHT, regardless of how HOLY they are come & go and have no more value then your empty hand. Get it?

They do however, make you feel differently in a relative way, don't they?...but again all feelings also change like the breeze...ONLY LOVE/PEACE/YOUR NATURE..remains the same...

So think, feel, act and BE BIG LOVE....

Yesterday at 10:59am · Delete

Moses Kravitz

I want to know who you deleted.
Somewhere there is a lost soul out there who needs comforting.
Have you no compassion??

Yesterday at 11:06am · Delete

Jeff Gregory

Moses (Moses? Are you still wandering around the desert?), Let's trust that you're joking. Obv, your photo shows you under a hairdryer, with no hair, so you must have a sense of humor.

I say this with the most kindness: will all of us STFU?!?! I'll start...

Yesterday at 11:25am · Delete

Dvorahji Dvorah Adler

Moses is actually the love of my life....with or without the hairdryer...

Yesterday at 11:30am · Delete

Liz Hunyadi

Kali Ma Na Ma....GO Dvorahji, Go...show 'em the boundaries (and the door, when necessary!) ;O)

Yesterday at 11:32am · Delete

Cynthia E. Frantz

thank you for your wise words and modeling true love ....

Yesterday at 11:41am · Delete

Dvorahji Dvorah Adler

YES YES YES! Cynthia - Someone might say: "Dvorah, you're such a B@$%%!" WELL maybe I am - but I am your best friend and your greatest lover and the absolute LOVE OF YOUR LIFE!

So relax with your own B! and BE your own LOVE OF YOUR LIFE and be happy, with yourself exactly as you ARE!

Yesterday at 11:49am · Delete

Liz Hunyadi

Yeah...real love comes from a place of strength. It's not loving to be someone's doormat or punching bag. There has to be respect for each other's space and emotional energy. Then we all have the energy we need to love each other without blowing up or feeling 'used' then everything flows in a balanced way, the way it should. Impersonal love is what the universe is made of. And then we live it on a personal level.

Yesterday at 12:11pm · Delete

Alex Andres Sahagun ॐ

OH I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, DVORAHJI♥ ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

Yesterday at 12:49pm · Delete

Dvorahji Dvorah Adler

Oh you bad boy, Alex, trying to butter me up so I don't go ballistics on you! love you toooooooooo!

Yesterday at 12:52pm · Delete

Alex Andres Sahagun ॐ

Oh Baby! I love you even more when you go ballistic on me...hehehe! (Just like when Kali-Ma chops off my head-ego when i get too lost in worldly consensus human reality, and like you said, "worldly" is fun, too;-)

Yesterday at 1:10pm · Delete

Thailand Redstone

Wow, amazing expression of the one heart...I thank you, and honor your absolute clarity. Seeing through bullshit without a blink...Yes. love is...There is no question in true seeing...

Yesterday at 3:44pm · Delete

Dvorahji Dvorah Adler

JT: (a FB friend just emailed me)
Dvorahji, why are your male followers the most pandering and servile? Do we all have a freudian mommy complex where we all just want crawl back inside the womb? love you

Dvorahji:
No baby, you just want someone to smack you around a little bit...And Of course Kali is more then happy to do it...but remember, my love is far greater then my bite!

JT:
Thank you guru

Dvorahji:
Baby, if you really want to hang out with a Guru...Check out my Guru!...I'm like a guruette with a hat sans baton!

Yesterday at 3:55pm · Delete

Dvorahji Dvorah Adler

And JT also said which I find ALWAYS RELEVENT TO ALL MY DAHHHLLLLLINGGGGG Devotees gay/straight/and otherwise.....

"A wise old queen I met in narcotics anonymous once told me "it's okay to beat yourself up, just use a feather to do it"---and Dvorahji says: AMEN!

Yesterday at 4:37pm · Delete

Moses Kravitz

Jeff- I'll follow...

Yesterday at 4:38pm · Delete

Theresa Weisskircher

wonderful.... hard for the ego mind to understand though... it seems to equal love with "i please you, always do what you want and fulfill all your needs no matter if it is true to me or not"...
thank you, Dvorahgee!

Yesterday at 5:18pm · Delete

Tanbir Kabarwal

Nice. apt.

Yesterday at 8:05pm · Delete